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The issue that we as Black women face is the disappointing reality that too often when the Black men does decided to date women of other nationalities, they feel compelled to bash and demean us in the process.
Leaving us to question, “How hard is it to love her without hating us?
As livid as I was, my anger subdued when I realized that my frustrations were misplaced. She was spoon-fed a scoop of #alternativefacts by a self-hating Black man.
If he, meaning the Black man as a whole doesn’t honor us, how can we possible be upset that people outside of our community don’t either?
A link to the You Tube version of this video has been attached for your viewing pleasure, but if you are unsure that you will be able to exercise restraint and not snap off completely, let me give you a quick synopsis and spare you from wasting 10 minutes of your life.
According to this woman, Black men prefer White women because: ● Black men can pull hair during sex without the tracks slipping ● They ride for their men and Black women leave them when they are broke ● We carry ourselves in a way that turns the Black man off ● We have 5 or 6 kids by multiple Baby daddies ● We can’t pay our bills because we spend all of our money on weave ● We don’t have father figures ● All of the other races are taking over You get the picture.
I mention my calm temperament in an attempt to help those who will read this article to understand just how enraged I must have been to consider throwing my laptop across the room.
For almost ten minutes, I watched a White woman shamelessly bash Black women.Whether you choose to date a sistah or not is neither here nor there, but for the sake of building a strong nation of women, Black men, is it too much to ask for a little courtesy?Never forget that it was and is us who aide in your safekeeping, both publicly and privately, socially and politically.You will never understand the devastation we experience watching the Black man degrade, demean, and destroy the self-esteem and the sanctity of the Black woman while praising and glorifying women of other races. So, yes Black man, the black woman may appear to be angry, but consider this, maybe she is scared.Maybe her hard exterior is the only shield she has to protect her in a world where she is always under fire.